Today is going to be a stressful day for lots of you, no matter how it all shakes out. By now, many of you will have already voted while others will set aside time to do so later in the day. Regardless, millions and millions of us will likely be glued to the TV late into the night. And tomorrow morning, the morning after, or maybe even several mornings after, we will have learned something about ourselves, as a country. Chances are—again, no matter the results—we will have learned something, or relearned something, that we don’t like. That hurts us. That frightens us.