So my not so diplomatic response was : Do you understand that not everyone in a person‘s phone is a friend. There are professional contacts there. There are doctors and teachers, the parents of my child’s friends….there are people that I would never ever cross that line by sending them an invite to an app. This is unprofessional, this is embarrassing, this is unacceptable. Please tell me how I disable your access to my contacts. I know it’s something I need in order to be verified, but I do not care about that anymore. How do I remove your access to my phone contacts? If you do not tell me how I will simply delete this app.