What to say to someone with dementia Use short simple sentences Don t talk to the person as you would to a child be patient and have respect for them Try to communicate with the person in a conversational way rather than asking question after question which may feel quite tiring or intimidating Include the person in conversations with others Our Special Friendship It means so much to me knowing how much you care and that if either of us needs to talk the other will be there Your friendship is a special gift that I treasure every day and I hope you know I value it more than words can say Although your loved one may not remember you or might do things that frustrate you this is the time when he or she needs you the most I WILL When you forget I will remember for us both🥰🙏🏽🌷