Girls are not chill by nature They tend to keep urges inside and pretend they d o n 't Sharing a room can be a warzone and also a comfort zone It depends on how much you understand each other People have different minds accordingly different likes and dislikes Maybe you want to sleep with the lights off but she insists on keeping it on Maybe she needs you to talk in low volume when you are on phone or she wants you to read softly These silly reasons will make you hate each other You are gonna complain it to your friends and she is going to do the same thing One of the best lesson you learn in boarding schools and hostels is that you start learning how people act their motives behaviors .( PART 1 )