Take it as a sign to get to know your unconscious mind limerence This is not always the case but a specific case and an interesting perspective to consider As always these are my personal ideas Something to catch yourself on If you are ready to start the journey of getting to know your unconscious motives I am an Ambassador for an organization of doctors called The Embody Lab They educate the public on advanced nervous system regulation and somatic forms of psychology from dozens of angles so you can choose the one that best fits your life If you are just starting out I HIGHLY highly recommend for everyone to try Dr Peter Levine s classes on how your nervous system is altered after trauma Take notice of how your physiology has been impacted I have them linked to my account.