You ve only got ONE life to live Why are you wasting precious time being with a partner who doesn’t truly make you feel loved? Before your next relationship make a list of partner behaviors that you cannot live with. Your list may change as you get older but your loyalty to it must not Your partner should have a list as well It might not be the same list as yours but it is just as important to your own happiness If there are things on your partner s list you cannot or will not abide by your partner could be willing to change it for you If he is not willing to change their list and you are not willing to abide by it then leave The more items on these lists that cannot be followed or changed the likelier this relationship will end in a horrible breakup